15.05.1997 – 27.11.2018
Forever in our hearts
Happy heavenly birthday Kay, sending love to family and friends today 💗
Thinking of you , your family and friends on the anniversary of your passing . You achieved so much in your short time on earth , inspiring, charismatic and such a good friend to my son . Your thought of often and will forever hold a place in my heart …. Shine bright like a diamond 💎
Always in my heart and on my mind. Much love big man. Xx
Happy heavenly birthday Kay 🌟
Thinking of your family and friends 💙xxx
Dear Kay thinking of you on the third anniversary of your passing , much love to Your family and friends , forever in our hearts 💙xxx
Dear Kay
Wishing you a happy heavenly birthday , thinking of you,your family and friends on your special day . Rest easy 💙xx
Dear Kayode you are forever in our hearts.
Happy heavenly birthday Kay, thinking of you today 🌟 sending love to friends and family xx
Continue to rest in the Lord…. gentle giant.
We all miss you dearly
Love Aunty Folake
Sending my love to Kays family on this day xxx
Thinking of you Kay on your second anniversary on your passing , continue to fly high . Special thoughts are with your dear parents , sister and friends 🕊xx forever in our thoughts
Kayus papa thinking of you
Happy birthday Kay. Thinking of all friends and family especially today x
Dear Kay,
I’ve been thinking about you a lot recently, about how your cheerfulness would brighten everyone’s day and how you made your love for life obvious to all. Those memories will stay with me forever. Missing you a lot, Happy Birthday x
Dear Kayode
Wishing you a happy heavenly birthday , you continue to live on in your family and friends memories. Thinking of you all today as you each have your own special thoughts , especially Peju, Akin and Olly xxxx
Dear Kay
Thinking of you on the first anniversary of your passing …. RIP
Sending love to your parents , sister and friends … forever in my thoughts 🕊xxx
Thinking of you today and every day Kay, I cannot put into words how much I miss you and how surreal it is that it’s been a whole year. Love you always x
Thinking of you Kayode and your family , George is off on holiday and I know that he would want to share this experience with you and wishes you were there , unfortunately this is not possible but I’m sure you will be watching over him , rest easy and fly high xx
Happy Birthday Kay, thinking of you especially today.
Sending my love to all of Kay’s friends and family, not only today, but on everyday spent missing him. Xx
Happy birthday Kay ❤️ you will forever be an inspiration to us all, and I have no doubt you’re smashing it up there.
Thinking of everyone today x
Thinking of you today on your birthday, happy heavenly birthday Kay . You live on in the hearts of soo many people.
Love to your family and friends xxxx
Kay
When you came to Jersey I had no idea of the impact you would have on me over the years, and how lucky I was that you were a part of our lives.
You presence and laugh would warm up the room and I can think of countless nights over the years we would sit and chat about anything. You would always be there to offer advice in deeper conversation and I’ll never forget how understanding you were. You constantly had a positive outlook on everything and never failed to make me laugh no matter what. I keep thinking about the times we would play video games, rinse each other and bank laughs all night … all the spontaneous runs to town to get food 2 minutes before Big Js/Turkish closed. The holidays we had together will have a place in my heart forever, they were undoubtably the funniest times I’ve ever had and I’ll always be grateful to you for that.
You had the potential to do anything you wanted, behind that cheeky smile you were intelligent and charismatic, I could describe you in so many words but they will never express how great of a guy you were. I don’t think I’ll ever meet anyone like you, truly one of a kind.
Since talking to many of your family and friends its clear you affected them all in a incredible way just like you have me. Everything thats been said about you has been so relatable, you were genuinely loved by everyone in so many ways. I think about you everyday and will miss you forever mate, it’s heartbreaking you’re not here.
To Peju, Akin and Olly, I’m so sorry for your loss, my thoughts will be with you. You should be so proud of the son, brother and friend you raised.
Love Harry
Kay,
I don’t know where to begin.
As well as being one of the funniest, wittiest people I’ve ever met, you also had the most sensitive, empathetic and caring nature. You always knew exactly what to say and had a unique ability to turn any situation into a positive. I am eternally grateful for everything you did for me, you were always there for me, at any time for hours on end (although your sleeping pattern was so weird you always seemed to be awake at those times lol). Not sure how I’m going to cope without your words of wisdom, but I have learnt so much from you and will carry this with me forever. I will do my best to make you as proud of me as I was of you when you turned up to pres on time.
I miss you and your booming voice more and more everyday Kfam. I hope you’re having a blast up there and not cringing at us all too much for being so soppy! Love you lots xx
And to Akin, Peju and Olly, sending my love and thoughts to you through this tough time x
I think about you everyday pal, your laugh is forever in my mind, reminding me of the amazing kind of person you are.
Rest in peace Kay
Kay,
The last seven weeks since your passing has been without a doubt the toughest time of my life. Every day I miss you more and more, but I will forever cherish all of the amazing moments we shared together, strengthening our somewhat unspoken bond. From the funniest holidays I’ve ever been on, the late nights bashing PS2 at yours and even the hours we have spent bickering over insignificant subjects. I loved how we could be roasting each other one minute and then be in the middle of a deep, meaningful chat the next. You were truly unique, and it devastates me beyond words to know that I will never meet anyone like you in this world.
I am so grateful that you were a part of my life growing up, but not just because of all your obvious wit, charm, banter, confidence, loyalty… (as you all know, the list goes on). I am most grateful for the advice which you gave, and I can see now the massive amount of people who benefitted from it also. When one of your friends had a problem, you always knew, a testament to your incredible intelligence. And you would always selflessly try and make it OK. Speaking from personal experience, I can think of countless occasions when just speaking to you made me feel better. You knew what was needed, a confidence boost, a laugh or a dose of reality, you always wanted the best for your friends and would do anything to protect them.
To my brother Kay, I hope we can go on and live life how you would have, to the fullest. You will never be forgotten, and I hope you had some idea of how big an inspiration you were to so many people. Love you bro x
And to Olly, Akin and Peju, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find a way through the worst ordeal anyone can face. Lots of love x
Kay,
You were one of the first people I met at university, and had I not met you I wouldn’t be friends with many of the people I am today.
Stood in the downstairs loos of the Guild during fresher’s week I heard somebody screaming at the top of their voice ‘Heartbroken’ by T2 and I immediately ran over and started singing along with them. For the rest of the night, we ended up running around the Guild as if we were best friends and I immediately knew that I’d found a gem. Not much changed throughout our time together, we continued to run round clubs and anywhere we went being stupid and having fun all the way through until the end of our time at university. He was always there supporting me through whatever I did, whether it was through music or work. He made every effort to engage in anything anybody said and he always provided the best insights. The times we had living together, and out and about I will always treasure.
Despite being one of the most difficult people to contact in the world because he had more mobile numbers and phones than anyone I’ve ever known, we ended up building one of the closest emotional relationships out of anyone I knew at university. We spent hours talking about how we felt and how we thought emotions worked, listening to ambient music until the early hours of the morning and I truly feel that I connected with him on a deep level. He understood me, I understood him. Having spoken to his wider family members and friends, as well as seeing the tributes written below, it is clear that this was something he had built with everybody and I am so happy that I was lucky to enough to have formed such a close bond with him. People like him don’t come around very often, and it is so rare to see someone with such an ability to relate to people. He was truly an inspirational person, not just in his sheer level of intelligence, but also in his ability to make anybody and everybody feel comfortable and at ease in any social situation.
I could go on and on, but the best way to summarise Kay would be as a best friend to everybody. I’ll really miss you mate.
Love you lots,
Harry xx
Words cannot describe how truly grateful I am to have been your friend and for the times that we shared in the short time that we knew each other. I can wholeheartedly say that as a result of your company and character, the year that we spent living under the same roof will be my most memorable time at university. You radiated intelligence and I learned so much from you, never have I met a man that I could have the most brilliant and knowledgeable of conversations with but also share the silliest of jokes. You always lifted the spirit of anyone in your presence and I am so glad to have been one of those people. Thanks for everything Kay, you will be missed enormously.
Kay was the first person I met at uni, and we got on well instantly. Some of the best times I’ve had in the past few years were tearing around at sports night laughing at people or chilling in his room listening to ambient music while he tried to perfect his ‘ambient lighting’ (a piece of paper taped over a lamp) and chatting rubbish till 3am. He could talk about anything for hours, ranging from whether or not capitalism is inherently bad to whether we should invent a lasagne made out of chips. He was amazing at winding people up but you could also talk to him about any problem and he could dish out the perfect bit of advice. I remember having 3 hour long phone calls with him all the time while I was in Australia and he was up at ridiculous hours as per usual. Kay was incredibly unique, the most noticeable person in any room because he was about a foot taller than everyone else and had the most distinctive voice I’ve ever heard.
Never in my life will I meet someone like him again, and it was an immense pleasure to know him. Kay mate I miss you every day but as George said, you’d have laughed at me for saying something that soppy.
Sending all my love to the Famoriyo family and everyone that knew him
From the very first night of first year at uni, I knew I had met someone truly special. Not only had I made a friend. But a friend for life, a brother. The most integral and important person throughout the next 3 years of my life. There’s no doubt my life is as it is today because of you.
It sounds cliché, that we had some great moments together, but that is an absolute understatement. We shared some of the hands down funniest and most ridiculous times imaginable. Listening to cheeky tech house and donk at stupid hours of the night, mincing around at sports night obnoxiously doing Ronaldo’s ‘Siii celebration’. Rinsing PES 06, Goldeneye and Super Smash Bros. Laughing at the cast of Geordie Shore. Speaking about everything and anything for hours and hours on end to chilled trap in your room. You were always there to listen and provide the most unique and insightful perspectives on any topic imaginable. The most considerate, wise and inspirational person I’ve ever met. The list could go on and on for hours, it really could. These times we shared I will treasure forever. Never have I before, and never will I again make such a special connection with someone. But I’ll stop with all the soppiness. Because I know you’d have been cringed out haha.
So, here’s to you then Kaye, my brother. It goes without saying that God’s hit the jackpot, because he’s gained himself an absolute hero. A truly one of a kind guy. Don’t cause too much trouble up there mate haha. Until we meet again, enjoy the beautiful serenity in God’s kingdom and look out for us all. We’ll make you proud, I promise you that.
Big love forever,
George x
Kay was the king of conversation, in fact most of our friendship involved dusk to dawn debates on topics ranging from whether sexuality is inherent or constructed, which occurred literally second day of uni, to less serious ones, at least for me, about what order a newbie should watch star wars.
It was a shared interest we had I think, one that started from literally the first day we met in the Athena corridor and continued through pretty much every essay and interaction we had together. Truthfully sometimes I had no idea what he was talking about, just that he spoke with so much power and assured intelligence, that I had to listen and try to make an educated response. Even if I tried to stay quiet, Kay would never let me back down from the challenge – I remember we started a conversation about the possibility of inherent human conscience on the way back from Tesco where we’d bought WKDs for a laugh but they must have made them stronger because I got confused and he kept calling out my contradictory statements, which ended with us nearly missing the night out because we were arguing our positions with blue tongues in the corridor outside my room. The point is, I was always in awe of Kay and certainly wanted to be his equal, but like most things he knew that sooner than I did, which I think is why he always knew when to push me and when to praise me. I relished the times the playing field was leveled, and when we could just sit and share our ideas on the new things we’d been reading – like a seminar but always funny because Kay was involved. Kay didn’t just ensure there was never a dull moment, but he did so much for my confidence for which I’m eternally grateful and hopeful he knew that just like he knew everything else.
Kay was an exceptional man and I’m honoured to have known him, all my love to his family
“A rose’s brief bright life of joy
Such unto him was given”
Akin, Peju and Olly, I urge you to consider Kayode’s death, not as an end, but as a beginning. The fragrance of his life trails through all the tributes on these pages. To live in the hearts of our loved ones is not to die. All will be well.
May you find comfort in God’s presence as you remember Kay.
Kay, I never had the privilege of meeting you, but somehow feel that I know much about your attributes voiced often by your very proud father. Looking at the lovely photographs of you, how handsome you were and reading the tributes of those who knew you well, you were obviously beautiful inside and outside. Your cruel, sudden loss has had a profound impact not just on your loved ones, but in all the communities your presence touched. Akin, Peju and Olly, there are no words of comfort I can offer you to ease your pain, but you do all remain constantly in my thoughts as together you are all facing the unimaginable, unbearable test of faith and strength. My sincere condolences. Deepest respect to you and your beloved Kay.
I never actually taught Kay but he had such a great presence at Victoria College – he was funny, charismatic and enigmatic – he always had a big cheeky grin on his face and made others laugh so easily.
My thoughts are with his family and friends.
My thoughts are with you all at such a sad time. Sending love and prayers to your wonderful family xx
I didn’t have the honour of knowing this lovely, beautiful man. I know his parents and they must take a moment in their darkest of hours to be proud of what they together had. My love to you both xx
I loved seeing you Kay, outside and inside VCJ and at Paul’s church. Your smile shone from within and had the ability to make the people you were with feel very special.
I remember bumping into you and your dad outside VCJ when you’d just received your awesome A level grades. You were excited about your future, which was a true inspiration to my boys 4 and 5 years younger. They remember you on the football pitch at school, especially when you broke your leg. They call you their role model. Thank you for being that to them.
I had the pleasure of working with your lovely Dad for 4 years, he would talk about you with such pride and joy. My prayer is that your Mum, Dad and Sister find the inner strength they need from their faith in God and that they hug each other tighter whilst they keep your memory alive.
You are gone, but you will not be forgotten. We thank God that he crossed our paths and we have been blessed by you. X❤️
My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time. X
I never knew you but what a handsome man!! I work with your dad who was and will always be so incredibly proud of you. Stay safe in the arms of your grandma till you are reunited with your beloved mum, dad and sister again xxxxx❤️❤️
We never knew you but we knew you through the mark you had made on your dad. We knew that your whole family loved you dearly. Rest softly in the arms of Jesus and may God comfort and hold your loving family circle. Laura and James
We lay your mortal body to rest today but we are assured of your eternal life being vibrant and fulfilled. I remember my Kayus KK with so much joy and affection but remain so pained I didn’t know you as the amazing young man you were…I can’t explain how that happened and how painful that is…I am so so sorry….for all the gatherings I missed and all the opportunities I let slip by….I pray so much grace for the family as we work through this….one thing in all of this is that you are God’s before you were ever ours and you remain God’s…for you my dear the quest is over…your face has seen Him- your Saviour and Master…..our quest continues to be with Him one day….My Kayus Enjoy God’s presence and I know you are more alive that we here can ever be…pray for us…cheer us along…stand in the gap for us…..till we all are at the Masters side….you are ahead of us all on this score…..
Sis P, Bros A and my darling Olly no words can be said but the truth in all of this is our eternal hope…he is alive and if he could say anything to you now I know he will say Heaven is beautiful and worth every sacrifice to be present there….imagine all the people he would have met, all the questions that would have been answered……JUST IMAGINE…..With so much pain and love mingled together……the conclusion of it all is ‘Kayus you are loved and will forever live in our hearts….
Dear Akin, Peju and Olly, such a beautiful, moving and inspirational service today. I only met Kay a few times but could recognize much of what was spoken about him. His warmth, kindness, his smile. I met him as a teenager and later as a handsome young man with impeccable manners. A credit to his parents and sister. I hope all the love, prayers and tributes expressed by so many people who loved Kay and the Love of God will help you all, step by step on this journey. So very sad and sorry, our sincere condolences to you all. Kay, Rest In Peace.
Kayode, we know your parents Akin and Peju and travelled recently and met again in Singapore for a Conference. Akin is a classmate from Medilag. They were very proud of you and spoke of how you had just finished from Birmimgham University which is 5 minutes from our home in Birmimgham. We would have been your local guardians and missed the opportunity to know you better. We are also close friends of your Aunty Buki and uncle Shola and their kids your cousins. We pray that you rest in peace in the bosom of the good Lord our God and may the lord grant your parents , sister and family the strength to bear your transition to heaven, where all shall meet again. 🙏 Omi and Edith Ohizua, Birmimgham.UK
I’m still in disbelieve that you have past. I’m hoping to wake up from this nightmare. I’m so sad and never thought I would witness this in my lifetime. You were a very special individual, fun loving, full of jokes and very cheeky. You reminded me of my younger self. I remember when you were about 10 in your best scouse accent you would always remind me that “Liverpool has been voted European city of culture’ which still cracks me up till today.
I pray to God for your energetic soul to rest in peace. I pray to God to give your family and friends strength in this difficult time.
Rest in Peace little cousin. Love you and you will always be in my heart.
Wale xxx
Kayode, Continue to Rest In Perfect Peace with your creator .. God will continue to be with your parents, sister and other family members . The Almighty God loves you more .. We will meet one day to part no more .. Dr. Olawunmi Kukoyi -Maiyegun
Kayode was such a kind hearted, jovial, fun loving, full of life type of guy. There was never a dull moment with him and as a younger cousin of mine I remember always looking forward to seeing him. As we grew older, we didn’t see as often as I would have liked but when we did see it was always fun catching up with him. There was just this amazing aura about him. His presence always used to light up a room especially with his witty jokes that would just crack everyone up. I remember the joke he made during our grandpas funeral reception when he commented on how a guest who was dressed in an all black ensemble with a bowler hat and a walking stick was Jonathan (former president of Nigeria) and we all turned round to look thinking it was really him! Lol.
He was such a handsome and an intelligent young man with an intellectual mind that was inspiring. I remember when we went to visit my Aunty Peju in her hotel during one of her visits to London and Kayode was there. We engaged in a conversation about what he felt his interests were in terms of his career and a bit of Nigerian politics. I thought it was really great how globally aware he was about current issues. He was also a really great dancer. I still remember some lovely dance moves he gave us during our grandfathers funeral reception that caught everyone’s attention.
I still can’t believe I won’t be seeing KayusP again, it still feels like a dream and this truly saddens my heart. I believe he was an angel in disguise. I really thank God for blessing me with a cousin like Kayode and the precious time I spent with him on earth. I will forever cherish the loving memories that were created with Kayode, my dearest cousin. I will miss Kayode so much. I pray that God will comfort and strength The Famoriyos during this trying time.
Rest in perfect peace Kayode! ❤️❤️❤️
Adios.
Love you Kayode.
Love from,
Rolake xxx
I had the pleasure of meeting Kay on my many visits to Birmingham to visit my son George , he was warm , friendly and smiley. My son George built a great friendship as they lived together for the last 3 years at uni , I am deeply saddened by his passing and that such a special friendship had to end so soon , he will live on in George’s heart and the hearts of all who loved him , fly high with angels and rest in perfect peace . My heartfelt sympathy to Kay’s family and friends … 💙💙🙏🕊
Kay, The shocking brevity of your life has painfully struck all our hearts. But it is far outshone by the extraordinary larger than life star you were and are to all whose lives you touched and beyond.
Clearly you were and are one of those rare personalities whose whole supersedes the sum total of the many awesome and inspiring parts God created in you.
To God be all the glory for the blessing of your outstanding life and for the legacy you leave behind in your large footsteps.
Dance and laugh eternally with God.
Each time I try to write about you, my hands and heart becomes heavy. Writing about you makes your passing a reality I can’t escape from. Why did this happen?? What went wrong?? I met you during your last 2 visits to Nigeria: before and after grandpa’s death. I still and will always remember your infectious smile and charming personality…how embarrassed you were when you were being sprayed money at grandpa’s funeral…your dance steps…the way you were with Fifi, making me think you were much older till Fifi told me.
You were such a respectful, happy and ambitious young man. You had so much passion for life and loved genuinely…just as you were loved. Oh! how your mum talked about you, your sister absolutely adored you, talking about how intelligent you were; grandma still talked about you saying “remote control” as a baby just the Sunday before you passed on to glory.
From the little I know of Kayode, as painful as his passing is, he wouldn’t want his family and loved ones in agony, he would want everyone to remember the good times and hold strong, thanking God for the joy of his being.
There are no words to quantify the vacuum your passing has left, the pains and heartbreak. I pray the whole family and your loved ones are enveloped in sweet memories of you…keep flying with the angels, Kayode…
‘Kanyinsola
Kay and I always helped each other through the exam season at University. Whenever one of us went down into the kitchen for a break we’d start kicking the house football around. The noise of a bouncing ball was too much to resist for either of us and before you knew it we’d be in a tense game of keep it up, despite the ever increasing exam pressure. This has to be one of my fondest memories of him. Love you always bro 💙
Kayode reading these beautiful tributes about you is testament to what a remarkable young man you where. Knowing you from when you lived in Wales i remember what a kind & warmed hearted person you where. Your amazing family who truly raised a wonderful son. I remember when I stayed with you all in Jersey you made me so welcome & I have lovely memories of my time with you all. My hearts breaks 💔 for your family Akin, Peju & Olly I pray for them all, you where taken to soon Sending all my ❤️❤️❤️ & 🙏to the family. RIP with the angels Kay. Your memory will live on forever.
May the Endless Memories of KAY activate Thanksgiving to God for a gift of him to you in his lifetime as God Himself comforts the whole family.
My dear nephew Kay. You left us way too soon. I am glad for the time we spent in south of France years ago….even at such a young age you had so much love to give. Your wit, love and kindness was clear, and your love of God deep. A testament to your wonderful parents.
Aunty Peju, words fail me. But take solace in the word of our Lord God. John11:25;1Thessalonians 4:13-15. Rest in eternal peace Kay. As your favourite word goes —Hallelujah!!!!!!!
Uncle Tim
I will always fondly remember teaching History to Kay, through both his GCSEs and his A-Levels. He was a fantastic young man with so much charisma and charm. Polite and witty, he was a real credit to himself and his family.
His debating skills were incredible; sharp and articulate he was able to liven up every lesson with both his passion and humour. So often he had us laughing and teaching him was such a joy. He made a big impact on all that knew him and I have often thought of him in the years since he left. He was a student that I’ll never forget.
Kayode was such a genuine person, one of the most genuine people i have ever met in fact. We have countless memories together growing up, memories i will hold dear to my heart forever. I remember when i was younger and there was talk about Kayode visiting, the surge of excitement that would rush through me was unbelievable. Kayode, you were not only my cousin but my friend as well and you will be truly missed.
Kayode was always the life of the party, always making people laugh and the complete embodiment of Joy. Rest in perfect peace Kayode. Till we meet again again next time bro xx
Your sis,
Fifi
My Brother Kayode. What an inspiration you were to us all and still are. There was always something I felt I could always learn from you despite being six years older. You had such an inquisitive and knowledgeable nature about you.Your fun loving sprit, kindness, smile and charisma were all eye catching to everyone. I will miss our hot debates on football and all our other areas of similar interests and gossip. I will miss you from the very bottom of my soul. I love you my brother. May God let you rest peacefully at the gates of heaven.
Kayode, oh what can I say? I have no words to describe the hurt that is in my heart as a result of your death. I feel so numb…. I feel like I am stuck in a nightmare. This is so hard to come to terms with…. I remember the last time I saw you at your grandma’s funeral, the smile, the laughter and the way you cheered us all up in the family, and raised our spirits. I ask, why, oh why are you not still here to do the same, Kayode? Tears fill my eyes every time my thoughts wander and I ponder this great tragedy.
Till we meet again, Kayode, adieu.
Kayode, gentle giant, softly spoken, witty, handsome and intelligent. Words cannot express the cruelty of this world. Just like yesterday, we spoke of visiting you in Jersey. You should be writing this for me, not I for you. You are missed beyond measure.
Rest in Peace brother.
The news of your passing came as a rude shock to us. Who are we to question God. In times like this we can only put our trust in God and believe that ” All will be well”.
The Lord will grant us all including your dear Mum, dad & sister the strenght to carry on, and someday we may be given the understanding why you had to go so soon.
Rest in peace dear Kay.
Mofoluto & Yetunde Ige.
Honestly, this is beyond me and members of my family, hearing the saddest news concerning the death of Kayode.
On behalf of the Ndalugi family, I’m extending our sincerest condolences to Wande, Peju and Seun. It is really a hard one to swallow. May God in His inifinite Mercy grant you peace, peace, peace and console you all and the rest of the family here at home and abroad.
God God only knows why!!!
Caroline Ndalugi.
Sleep quietly, my “little Kay”, now in God’s arms.
I still can’t believe it really happened.
Your beloved family will be in my daily thoughts and prayers, may they find comfort and peace to get through the days ahead.
With grieving heart, your Italian nanny and friend.
When someone dies, especially a young vibrant man; we often look for reason. However,most often there is no explanation.
So be strong!
Kayode. I met you on a number of occasions when you were a young boy in NorthWales and occasionally around Christmas in London at Grandpa’s house. But it is as if I knew you so well through your wonderful caring parents (family.) It seems a flash but I know it’s a long glow which will never die. That smile will live on forever as will you in the hearts of the family. AMEN
On 2nd December, I received the shocking news of Kayode’s death while playing football. I never knew it would be our last conversation when we spoke while on a visit with his parents to my late twin sister.
Who are we to query God? We take solace in the hymn that says, “The bud may have a bitter taste , but sweet will be the flower”. No doubt , Kayode has left sweet memories.
Adieu till we meet to part no more.
Grandma T.
I was so sorry to hear this news. I remember Kayode as a charming and intelligent student in my A Level Philosophy class. Always with something interesting to say and kind and thoughtful towards the other students. I have thought of him often in recent years and will never forget him.
Kay was the sweetest and polite young man! I have so many memories of him and the boys bantering in my kitchen.
They are a special group of young men that shared the best of times together and cared for each other. Your presence in person will be missed enormously but forever in their hearts and memories.
May your family’s faith give them the strength through this unbearable journey 🙏💗
Shocking and and hearthbreaking.
Rest in perfect peace.
May the almighty GOD grant Akin, Peju and Seun the strength to bear the loss of a wonderful and loving son and brother. You brought love and joy to all that had the opportunity to know you, we will miss your hugs. REST IN PERFECT PEACE.
It is so difficult to comprehend. Such a young, vibrant lad, bursting with life…oh Lord, grant the family strength in this difficult time….comfort like only YOU can. Rest in peace Kay. Aunty Peju, Uncle, Seun and the entire family……praying for you.
I have taught many students over 20 years and Kay will be one student who I will never forget. Intelligent, sharp witted and kind. I will always remember the lively discussions we had in A level History. Thinking of you all.
Life does not make sense sometimes especially when lives are cut short so soon. Kayode, I saw your picture on your Aunty Babi’s DP I thought what a fine young man your smile was just so heartwarming. From all that has been said about you, you clearly were a gentlemen and a good soul. We pray the good memories shared bring some comfort to your loved ones. Rest In Peace Precious One.
A bright and brilliant young man, your light will shine on in the hearts and minds of all those who know you.
May we take forward into our lives some of the grace with which you lived as a testament to your memory and beautiful spirit.
All my love and prayers are with the Famoriyo family.
Tamara
It’s with a heavy heart I write this tribute to the son of my cousins and egbons Akin and Sis Peju. Reading all the tributes reminds me of your Dad’s role model like personality when we were medical students in Lagos (though he wasn’t quite a prolific sportsman like you) and your Mum’s loving and generous personality which she has always had since childhood, as the Oyeleyes and Fadahunsis were united in generations before ours. With tears in our eyes, we thank God, that you lived up to your name “Olukayode “ and everybody has wonderful things to say about you. We thank God you touched so many lives in a positive manner. We pray that God consoles the lovely family you’ve left behind. Sun re Kayode.
Kayode I have so many memories of you as a young boy. We always had such fun with Olly and shared so many adventures together! I still remember rolling around on the rollacoaster with you in Spain! I am so heartbroken that we have lost you too soon. I know your spirit will live on in your family and in the hearts of everyone you met. Rest in peace.
Kayode , wow!
Your loss is heart wrenching and beyond words…. hmm !only God knows. You were such a fine and respectful lad, a giant yet so soft spoken. This is so so painful it hurts but we are thankful to have known , loved you and shared lovely memories with you.
Your lovely smile, your kind words to me the last time I saw you about how young I looked will always stay with me, and how awesome the girls said you were.
We all love you so much, forever missed and forever in our hearts.
Aunty Sade Smith ❤️
I remember one time at the Adewunmi’s house, Kayode saw me listening/watching sermons on a Computer and enthusiastically asked me questions about Theology. I remember him dancing in my family’s flat in London, ‘teaching us how to dougie ‘. I remember him running up and down the stairs as a toddler in his parent’s house in Wales. I remember also, that as a toddler, he would try to come into Olly’s room a lot, when we were around, since that is where we slept at times. He always took it upon himself to play with my little sister. I remember him telling me of a desire to study PPE. I remember he used to talk about his friends a lot, growing up.
Kayode was playful as a young boy, but even then, he had keen sense of mercy and was eager to render service to those in need. Friendship was so important to him – giving himself without discretion. He was interested in everyone, no matter the age and background. He had a holistic look on life – his mind must have always been making connections, which might have led to his interest in PPE. From his theological questions, he must have been striving to unite everything. As a young adult, he was cheerful and optimistic through thick and thin – even after the death of our Grandfather who passed before him.
I never met you dear Kayode but being the son of Akin and Peju I can imagine how loveable you were.Rest with the angels in heaven.
Kayode
You were such an amazing character always happy,smiling and making everyone laugh. The last time I saw you was one of the best and funniest times of my life and I will cherish those moments forever. Thank you for being the life and soul of the party. I will miss you so much
Tolu x
just incredibly sad that such a wonderful persin can be taken from such a loving family .only God knows why xx
an utter tragedy x
Heartbreaking. A life far too short but a life loved and well lived.
Much love to all the Famoriyo’s. You’re in my thoughts.
I’ll always remember your cheeky little face when I would visit the Famoriyo household in Gresford, you would light up the room. I was lucky enough to see you grow into a handsome, kind, intelligent young man who adored his family . We saw so much of Olly in you, and there will forever be so much of you shining on in her. We promise to look after your sister! Sending all my love to the Famoriyo family.
Heartbreaking!
Not sure what to write!
I am so sorry!
May God give you the strength and wisdom to bear Kay’s loss .
May his sweet memories give to peace.
RIP Kay
Rest in peace dear one, May God Himself comfort and console the whole family and friends left behind…..you’d definitely be missed but in time you sweet memories will help bear this great loss. It will be well…
Kayode your love was so true. You were such a joy, you brought laughter with you. You were kind, you were you.
Words cannot explain the shock I felt at the news and the sadness of my heart. The flame you lit lives on in the hearts of those you touched.
You have been taken away too soon.
Only God almighty has answers. Rest in peace till we meet to part no more. Rest in Peace.
Olukayode. I only met you very recently and very briefly but my heart breaks for a young life cut short so quickly and so cruelly. Sis Peju and Bro Wande and the whole Famoriyo and smith family I stand with you in prayer and pray you will find the strength to keep going. The strength to honour his memory by continuing to live and to love even though that’s the last thing you feel like doing. I stand with you in asking why and how is this fair and I stand with you in praying that the pain and the hurt will eventually subside and Olukayode will be remembered as a beautiful one sent to touch us all. Sleep on in peace dear one.
We are old friends of Kayode’s uncle Seyi Smith and known the rest of the family for a long time. We only met Kayode recently at his grandma’s funeral and it just feels unfair that such a promising life could be cut so short. Our encounter with such a lovely young man should not be this brief (life makes no sense at times like this) and we can not help but be saddened by this deepest of cuts, for any parent or family to bear.
Words cannot describe or explain why you could be snatched from your loved ones so quickly, but you shall live on in all the memories you have created and in the hearts of everyone who loves you, those you’ve touched and the space that you created which cannot be filled by another.
Rest with God.
We pray for the Famoriyo and Smith family; for the strength to bear and recover from such a great loss.
Kayode this is so unbelievable!! You will be sorely missed and forever remembered. May your beautiful soul Rest In Peace.
Olukayode, it fills me with sorrow writing this as after all you are my son too. You brought so much joy to your parents and Oluseun. Olukayode, if you are reading this (and I hope you are) remember when I came over to your room in Birmingham and you telling me about your plans of being a lawyer and me absolutely shocked at how tall you were then (I had not seen you for a long time). Can you also remember the last time we spoke, just over a month ago at grandmas burial and you admiring my hair and how slim I was and you wanting me to give your dad some tips and we had a good laugh about it. Little did I know that was going to be the last time I’d hear your gentle voice and see your ever smiling face. I give thanks to God for your short life for God says we should give thanks in every situation good or bad, happy or sad but I will still ask the question which is GOD WHY DID YOU TAKE OUR SON SO SOON. Olukayode, till we meet again rest in peace.
Uncle Wole
As close family friends to the Adewunmis; Dayo, Sade, Adebola and Adejoke – (Kay’s Braxted Park Family ), we feel very close to the lovely Famoriyo family and knew Kay growing up spending time with him when he visited his aunt with Seun and his parents at Braxted Park. This inexplicable loss is all too painful and heart wrenching for us. It is hard to find the words at this time to comfort Egbon, Sis Peju and Seun, cousins, aunts, uncles, friends and everyone that has had the privilege to have been connected with this really lovely young man. For us, as parents, this is especially sad, it is sad for us to have to comfort fellow parents and most especially ‘our children’ about the untimely passing of one of them! We can not do it and we do not have the words as we should never have witnessed this. May the Lord GOD ALMIGHTY comfort everyone at this difficult time and give you the peace that passeth all understanding. Sleep well son.
Kayode this is so unbelievable!! You will be sorely missed and forever remembered. May your beautiful soul Rest In Peace.
The bearer of joy- Kayode! We’re so proud of you and your accomplishments. In the midst of our confusion, sadness and questioning, we will continue to praise God, until the clouds lift and faith becomes sight.May the presence and comfort of Christ abide with dear Peju, Akin, Seun, and all the family, Amen. All will be well in Jesus’ mighty name, Amen.
GONE TOO SOON!!!
Olukayode, you were such a lovely young Lad, witty, charming, with a beautiful heart.
Your exist has created a vacuum in the Family, a space only you can fill. I am holding unto the beautiful memories of you, when you visited Nigeria.
The tears won’t stop, the pain lingers, but, the Almighty God knows and He understand. You will forever be in my heart. You will be greatly missed Kayode. Adieu my son.
A fine young man gone too soon. The world’s loss. Heaven’s gain. Heartbreaking but totally submitting to God’s will. May your sweet funny soul find eternal rest.
Sweet Jesus! I pray He will heal you from this heart wrenching loss. He will heal us all. You will find strength from the beautiful memories and joy your handsome saintly boy brought into your lives. You are in our prayers. Most Sincerely, Ugonn Chike-Obi. Dallas. Texas
I never met you but I knew your father. He spoke so highly of you and loved you so dearly. Sending prayers to your family xx
What can I say; a total shock!
My full encounter with this gentle giant was very recent where he demonstrated how absolutely delightful and loving he was. Not really knowing me he sought me out and thanked me with such deep felt sincerity over the tribute paid to his grandma, here I am now having to say some words about such a fine young man. My heart goes out to the family on this sad loss, but you should be proud that you raised such a beautiful soul – a joy giver indeed.
May he rest in abject peace 🙏🏾
If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to Heaven
And bring you back again
No Farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why
Our hearts still aches in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it means to loose you
No one will ever know
Since you will never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you will always stay .
Dear Kayode,
Hmmm, I remember when you were just over 2 years of age. The first time you came to Nigeria. You were amazed about everything. Wondered what we used candles for (good old NEPA’s alternative), what lizards were and queried why we had mosquitoes. Talked about puff daddy etc
There and then, I knew you were a smart little boy.
Wasn’t surprised you grew into a handsome, young, multi talented lad.
God brought you into our lives and you were a blessing.
Kayode, You have fought the good fight and finished the race. There lies a crown of glory awaiting you in your Fathers house above.
I thank God for good memories. The Lord will be with us, comfort us all and grant us the fortitude to bear this great loss.
Goodnight Kayode. Till we meet to part no more.
Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. I remember the little gentle boy running around in North Wales who grew to a gentle giant.
Loving memories never die. In our hearts a memory is kept of loved ones and will never be forgotten.
Words may not suffice to express the heartfelt sorrow that we feel for the passing of Kayode, loving son of Akin and Peju, beloved brother of Olly and a true friend of loved ones too numerous to mention.He was so full of life, love and promise but God in His infinite wisdom chose to call him home.
Kayode brought such joy to everyone who knew him and the tremendous outpouring of love, sympathy and support bears testament to the wonderful qualities God bestowed on him.
We are truly honoured and blessed to have known Kay and delight in the knowledge that he left the world a better place through acts of love and kindness.
May our Lord bless and comfort us all in our shared grief and give Kayode eternal rest.
Love from:
Geoffrey, Sulola, Gabby and Paul.
I can still recall the cheeky little imp of the Famoriyo family back in North Wales.
Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure and you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.
God has you in His keeping and we have you in our hearts till we meet to part no more.
You will forever be in our hearts.
Kayode my little big bro! I was beyond devastated when I heard the news. I was looking forward to seeing you this Christmas in the UK. You meant so much to a lot of people and you were and still are a really genuine, kind, joyful person and you had this infectious energy.
Writing this tribute has been hard brother because it means I can no longer be in denial.
We, your cousins, sister, parents and immediate family will miss you forever and love you forever. Gone too soon but never forgotten. Rest in Power Kay!! ✊🏾
Kayode, your departure from this world has left tears in my eyes, pain in my heart like a heart pierced with a sharp knife and my head in a daze, my nose is running, my tommy is swirling and I am still praying that this is all a dream. Sadly, it ain’t a dream. I’m asking God, why does it have to be that you will no longer be here with us, dear Kayode? Speechless I am otherwise.
It’s clear to me that you still have so much to give but obviously now, not here. I believe you are resting in the Lord but that is only a little consolation for us, your loved ones, left behind. We miss you.
I was looking forward to visiting you one day in Jersey. Your exit from the world, I will symbolically mark by a complete withdrawal from comments and opinions on Facebook and Twitter because I am completely numb and have no more words. Till we meet again.
We didn’t know Kayode but his parents Akin and Peju are such wonderful people that it is not difficult to imagine that Kayode was the same. The tributes from those who knew him are proof of this.
Our thoughts and prayers go to his family at this challenging time.
To the most beautiful family I know. Your loss is shocking and beyond sad. I cannot even begin to understand the loss of such a perfect son, but his talents, his achievements, his love, his joy of life and his beauty will fill your world with memories that may in time comfort and envelope you. My love to you all.
Our prayers for you dear son. You will always be in our hearts.
Like a shadow in the wind, you came lived life to the fullest with so much love and touched so many in your short life.
If think God doesn’t like good thing this is the evidence. He takes home in Glory to Himself the best of the best.
Kayode in Communion with the angels and saints of God in heaven, intercede for us and the whole world.
I look forward to that day when we will all meet in Glory never to part again.
Kayode, you are beautiful inside and out. A true inspiration of what a son, brother, nephew, cousin and friend should be. Talented, gifted, caring, loving, kind-hearted, friendly, generous, hilarious, life and soul of the party; are just very few words out of a long list that I would use to describe you. Thank you for always brightening up my day, I will miss our laughs.
I love you so much, my darling brother. We will meet again angel.
Your sis Adejoke xxx
From the boy I used to pick up from school to the handsome fun loving man I now encounter at parties. You’ve always had a kind spirit and been a pleasure to be around. Your confidence and the ease of conversation between us makes it seem like there’s no age difference. I’ve really enjoyed watching your story.
Kayode, Miraculous Kayode, Young Kindred Spirited Kayode. Born King, Boy Wonder but not in a manger, from the womb you came, into a world in sane.
Looking down through glass ceilings, upper echelon was the feeling. I wish I got to watch you grow and was part of that process, surely for you lighting up the room was no contest, even if we brought Kanye West and All of the Lights.
In my heart you reside, in the Lord we will abide. A thousand years is like a day to the Lord, we will meet again I rest assured!
Love you soooooo muchhhhhhh ❤️💔❤️💔❤️
Your big bro
~LKO~
~Jubal~
Kayode my man. Thank you so much for times we had together. Thank you for the birthday gift as well, I was hoping to repay you some day. You were always the joker when we met up, something I definitely learned from you. It was so good that the family was finally able to meet up again. Catching up on the time that went by: our favourite moments, our favourite shows and the games we played. Dude, I loved the hair before and after the trim; you always looked sharp. I am honoured to have had you as a cousin and I hope I made you proud. You will be missed but I know you’ll be smiling down on us all.
Kayode, I’m just so thankful that I had the provelidge to call you family. I will never forget the times we used to play video games and football all day and the smiles and laughter you brought to my life. Thanks for all the childhood memories, you will be missed x (from your little cousin aka mini Henry)
Sending so much love to the brightest, warmest and most brilliant K Fam.
Seeing the love you had for your family was something so special.
We’ll be looking after your sister for you.
Always in our hearts 💜
Kayode man what can I say. You were always making us laugh, always bringing jokes – I don’t think there has ever been a time with been together and not been howling with laughter! You will be greatly missed, and never forgotten.
Kayode. You were the life of the party, always smiling, positive and happy. The funniest and sweetest person I’ve ever met. I’ve never laughed so much as I did the last time I saw you, those are memories I will never forget and will keep close to my heart forever. I will really miss our football and comic book discussions and especially, I will really miss you. I am so blessed that I had a cousin like you